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Mrs. VanSteen (Kathy) posted a condolence
The stories shared about Scottie demonstrated that he "loved" everyone, regardless of who they were or the circumstances of their lives. He saw through it all to reveal the "person" beneath. He would give up anything he had (little as that may have been)to help someone else. May we all learn to follow your lead....to see with our "hearts". Rest in peace. You will be missed but forever in our hearts.
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J posted a condolence
I wasn't your closest friend, but the times we did have together were very memorable and ever since I have known you, you've been pretty much THE nicest person I've met. We didn't talk so often but when we did it was deep and meaningful and it really saved me more than you knew at the time, and more than anyone could ever know.
You changed mine and all of our lives for the better.
I will always smile when I think of you. Same as always, now and forever.
I know in my heart that you want us to celebrate your life, and not let your transition into the next keep us down.
Your family and friends will stay strong and remember your best times, until we all meet again.
Peace man. We love you.
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Water Resources of NJ posted a condolence
Pamela & family
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son.
Craig & Sue
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Dawn Bevan posted a condolence
A little boy with the sweetest smile..once upon a long time ago, went to Cavalry Lutheran pre-school with my son, Tom.
The Bevan family sends their love and prayers. May Scott's loving spirit.. his ability to make people laugh, always be with you..and comfort you.
God Bless the Parker Family.
Dawn Bevan
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Ken Brown posted a condolence
Scott:
I feel like my heart is breaking. My chest is tight. I couldn't believe it...I still can't. For some reason, I was positive we would someday be in a band together. You were a part of all of the plans I've been making; you were the inspiration for some of them. I've been scrambling to contact you recently...I put the word out and e-mailed you a few times. It didn't happen; now it never can. I wanted your positivity; I envied you your innocence. I will always cherish your smile. Even when I was mad at you, I couldn't stay that way for long. As soon as I would see you again, it was a done deal. You helped tattoo me, brother...now I look at that tattoo and think about how rough life is. I feel so cheated by death. You were so full of life. I am not ready. I'm still trying to catch my breath. I am going to write you a song, I promise. I hope you save me a seat wherever you are.
Ken
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Rebecca posted a condolence
So many memories with Scotty all will stick with me but one that will stick out more then others is when i went to visit Scotty in Philly. I met him in the park and we walked to wawa, we were talking about life and how each others were i was having some hard times and Scotty turned to me with that heart warming smile he had and he said to me " when your at your lowest just smile." He was the most loving person i've ever met and im so sad that this had happened but everytime i go to get upset i just picture his smiling face and i remember what he said, I love you Scotty you will be greatly missed. Welcome to peace
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Pam Parker posted a condolence
Scott,
How will I ever learn to live in this world without you? I miss you so much...Knowing you are FREE and in peace brings me comfort, but the reality of the cost of that freedom and peace makes me selfishly want to bring you back. I know in my heart that the battle you fought was wearing you out, Honey. Just watch over me now as I battle the loss of you. You will be sorely missed, my son. I will try to let you live through me as I embrace all people the way you would have. I will smile and hug and express my love and accept all people, for you...I love you more than the biggest universe there is. How much do you love me? I can hear you outdoing me now! I love you, I love you, I love you...Mom
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johnny posted a condolence
scott, where to begin... from the first moment i met you i bonded with you like very few people i ever have and i seriously doubt ever will again. i know you wouldn't want me, or anyone else, to be sad about this but it's so hard. you were such a powerfully positive and inspirational force and that is a rare thing to find in this world. i will cherish all my memories of you for the rest of my life, like when we stayed inside all day and made that painting which i will hold onto until it's my time. hell, i might just bring it with me so we can both look at again. you were the best friend i ever had and i'll never forgive myself for letting that friendship drift over the last year. i will miss you forever brother. long live scotty p!
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sarah posted a condolence
I was 5 when my brother Scottie was born. I remember getting all his little baby clothes & diapers ready for his arrival. I was so excited for MY little baby. To be honest, I wanted a sister. But now, I wouldn't trade my brother for anyone in the world, regardless of our short time together. 24 years is too short, but thank you God for every single second of my time with Scottie. GIve him a big hug for me...
See you when I get there.
I love you more than you'll ever know.
And don't worry, Harry will know his Scuncle...
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Deanna and Malcolm Thomas posted a condolence
I first met Scott when my daughter,Karen brought him home for me to meet in high school. What a loveable young man! We talked about everything that first meeting. I ran an after-school program at my church and that interested Scott as well as we found out they probably attended Story hour together at our local library in town. After that he became quite a fixture at our house and I always looked forward to seeing him. Over the years Karen and him became good friends and even dated. She asked him to be her date at her Senoir prom. They shared in a lot of experiences which now have become great memories. Karen is in Haiti and called me with the news. Instantly a tear came to my eye and my heart broke. As a mother I felt as if I had lost a member of my family. Please know you are in our prayers and Scott will forever be in our memories. I will always remember his "hugs" and the time he wore colorful suspenders to a church function we had. Karen's younger siblings just laughed so hard-in a good way. That is what Scott had a talent for- making people smile even though he was hurting inside and all our attempts to get through to him failed on different levels but I feel he heard us on some levels as well. Our condolences to all of you. In Christian Love, Thomas Family
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Bernadette posted a condolence
Scotty, I will always remember you throwing snowballs at my window in the middle of the night. The painting we did together is still hanging in my room. You were always there for me with love when I needed it. We all miss you so much, thank you for being a great friend.
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Kevin Tiver posted a condolence
I'll never forget the time that scott saw me walking down the road with my girlfriend, and picked us up and took us home. I didn't even know scott at the time, he just knew that I was Donny's brother. We weren't but a mile from home, but the fact that he took us right down the road showed how his true love for everyone. What an incredible unique individual. We didn't hang that much, but when we did it was truly a great experience. I just saw you last august, and I can't really believe that you are gone Scott. Scotty, I will miss you terribly. You were such a wonderful person. I will never forget about you man.
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Brian Mecouch posted a condolence
Scott,
Its hard for me to even think your gone, but I know your in a better place. From the day we were born I knew you and the childhood memories we shared I will never forget. We were probably living at each others houses almost every day.....I can still remember calling your mom, My mom! We always played that game Zelda, the great thing is that I still have it! The other day I opened up a picture of us riding bikes around your circle in front of your house.....I'm pretty sure we were always riding those things and why did u have to have the bigger bike! Haha....love you bud and always will!
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Hebner Family posted a condolence
I'll always be thankful that he was such a great friend to Mike.
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Donna Olund posted a condolence
I continue to struggle with trying to understand the last few years of Scott's life here with us on earth. I will always treasure the many wonderful memories he helped our families make together whether in New Jersey or in Chicago. I love you all so very much and am so sad about the loss of our Scott. Praying for God's peace to comfort all.
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Uncle Chip posted a condolence
It's been not quite a month but the loss will never go away. Try to remember Him the way He was and not what happened to Him. All of our lives are short. But this was much too brief. Value what we have, not what we want. and live everyday as though we'll never have another.
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Maryalice Kelley posted a condolence
Scottie, I pray you hear all of us missing you. You are very much loved. Even though I only met you once, I have heard many stories about you. The day we met for the first time in your favorite park will alway be a fond memory and forever embedded in my heart. You were so happy that day. Free spirited. I wish we had taken you with us on our adventures that day. I think the car was packed though. I pray we all will be together again in spirit. We love you, you smiley faced sweetie pie. You will always be remembered. Never ever ever forgotten, greatly missed. Every November 20th, the same day you and my son were both born, I will light a candle for you too and sing happy birthday. Hope you can feel our hugs. You have an awesome family. Thank you for bringing us together.
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Ken Brown posted a condolence
Scott,
MonsterMania is this weekend. It's funny, because I actually have a scheduling conflict. For the first time in at least 6 years, I won't be there. Kate and I are going on that camping trip to Jenny Jump State Forest we mentioned to you at the last convention. I honestly don't know if we could have enjoyed this one without you, anyway. Your energy was such a key component to our experience. Your passing is still so raw to me. Remember when we met Captain Lou and I got his autograph? It is hanging on the studio wall now. Remember when we ordered room service cheesesteaks and swore by how delicious they actually were? Or when I ordered the 5-5-5 Domino's deal after we screened Devil's Rejects and we ate pizza for dinner and breakfast the next day? I recall that at breakfast we caught Planet of the Apes on TV, and you knew every word! I really miss you, brother.
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Mom posted a condolence
I would like to thank the people who are adding memories. As messages are left, I receive e-mails and am able to see what you have shared. It comforts me to know what he meant to others and that he is still missed.
I have tried to find a way to reach out to some of you who have posted. If you are on facebook, please look me up (Pam Parker) so that I can learn more about your friendship with Scott. I miss him so much and don't want people to forget him. It was so nice to see Ken & Kate's message. They also commented on one of Sarah's blogs. We appreciate all your memories so please keep them coming...
Scott, you are sorely missed. I know you are still here with me. You helped me get through this past month as I spent all that time in the hospital with Grandma. I know it was you who gave me those nudges when things were going haywire with Grandma's breathing. Thanks for being there and letting me feel your presence in such a special way, as you always have and always will. I love you, Honey. I miss you so much...I know you will get me through this, whether I want to or not. I just can't believe I will never hear your voice or see your face, or feel your hug. I miss you so much...
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Ken Brown posted a condolence
Hey Scott,
As you know, it is my birthday tomorrow. Time is such a tricky thing. I can't help but remember how you loved that my birthday was on Earth Day. Not only for the natural rhyme, but also because you loved the Earth so much. Kate and I are going to take the dog to Lake Worth and clean trash in the morning. It used to make you happy to hear that we did that, and we will be thinking of you as we do. Then we are going to go to La Esperanza to eat. Do you remember when we brought you there? You ate the chicken tacos so fast that I almost doubted they had been there at all. I wish I could remember more about that meal. My impression of it is one of happiness, though. I also remember that it was a beautiful Spring day, not unlike today. Memories are almost as tricky as Time, I guess. We miss you, buddy.
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Pamela Parker posted a condolence
Scott,
I can't believe it is 3 months today. My heart is aching so much. I keep thinking about you and the last time I saw you. How I wish I could see you again.
I wish I had come here sooner. I really wanted to leave a message for your friend Ken and his wife. He already left you a message today. I would love to meet him and his wife. They really seem to miss and have such fond memories of you. So, Ken, if you ever read the other candles when you leave a message, please drop me an e-mail at pparker28@tampabay.rr.com. Your memories have been so comforting to read. I hope you have/had a happy birthday on the 22nd of April. And, as Scott would always say, "Peace".
I love you Scott...
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Lisa ONeill posted a condolence
The O'Neill Family sends their sincere condolences to all of the Parker Family. We are so very sorry for your loss and remember Scott and his beautiful smile! It's not "goodbye", but "until we meet again". Pam, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you.
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Steven posted a condolence
Hey Scott,
I can't believe it has already been 6 months. I miss you a lot. Thanks for being there when I need someone to talk to. It has been helpful to me, and I hope we can still keep talking the way that we are now. I love you and I miss you terribly.
Love,
Steven
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M posted a condolence
Scott, I still miss you so much. Your love was unconditional and I am sending you love today and always. You will never be forgotten.
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Pat Barner posted a condolence
So sorry for your loss, Pam. Could not believe it when you came into the store and told me. I am no longer working and am trying to find you on facebook. Love, Pat Barner
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Kevin Tiver lit a candle
Friday, January 27, 2023
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I'll never stop missing you brother ♥
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Tuesday, June 12, 2018
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Mom posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2016
5 years....can it be?
I just finished reading all the condolences left here, expressing their love for you. It comforted me to see how the depth of their love for you and the profound effect you had on their lives.. I was especially moved by what Uncle Chip said. I find as I focus my memories on you, and not what happened to you, I can embrace life each day to the fullest.
You are always with me...you will never leave my side, I know this for sure. Just give me some extra hugs these next few days so I can see your smiling face filling my heart full of joy....I love you...
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